Your description of Shep (one-armed guy) is spot on. He makes nearly everyone miserable. If he screws up something in a square, he always makes it into a tirade about his missing arm. I understand how losing a limb could make one bitter, but geez, after 12 years that I've known him, isn't it time for him to start dealing with the anger?
Not all DBD squares are disasters. Here's a tip: square up right in front of the caller. The weakest dancers and the biggest control freaks seem to gravitate towards the middle and back of the hall. This also applies to WFH/TNP tips.
Next year ... I'll be dancing again, and I will happily make a pact to partner up with you (or dance as your mirror opposite, if you'd rather) for the DBD and/or WFH Plua tips. I'm even willing to get together a "pre-stacked" square of A&C dancers to make it a more fun experience for you. :)
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Not all DBD squares are disasters. Here's a tip: square up right in front of the caller. The weakest dancers and the biggest control freaks seem to gravitate towards the middle and back of the hall. This also applies to WFH/TNP tips.
Next year ... I'll be dancing again, and I will happily make a pact to partner up with you (or dance as your mirror opposite, if you'd rather) for the DBD and/or WFH Plua tips. I'm even willing to get together a "pre-stacked" square of A&C dancers to make it a more fun experience for you. :)
Hugs!